serious inflation is a hard no for me, but i'm fine with the hentai logic tropes of deep penetration + size difference causing a bulge in the stomach, very light inflation from extreme amounts of cum after marathon sex, etc.
► BREEDING.
just a note that i'm super 100% into breeding kink itself (and related kinks including A/B/O, risk of pregnancy, etc.) and fine with situations where characters might be expected to bear a child, but just as with the context of ships, i have zero interest in playing out actual pregnancy and parenthood scenarios! it's more about the claiming/possessiveness aspect of the breeding kink for me.
► DADDY/MOMMY KINK.
not my thing, but it's not a hard no in the right circumstances – i just don't know what those circumstances are?! i genuinely can't think of a scenario where ruby would do this unless it was specifically a request from her partner for their sake. basically, i'm open to discussion if you really want to involve it.
► DEGRADATION & HUMILIATION.
both are very case-by-case for me. it's not my thing in most situations, and it's not something that ruby will find appealing; it's more likely to be part of a dubcon/non-con scenario, or corruption where a partner is trying to coax her into being more wanton. for the most part, i find it off-putting when it comes from a place of actual contempt and a desire to hurt, and much prefer there to still be genuine desire involved from the character doing the humiliation/degradation for whatever reason. not a hard no! just something i need to hash out first for it to work.
as noted above, i really don't like sudden casual degradation as "normal" dirty talk if it hasn't been discussed prior as part of the dynamic. it completely ruins the vibe for me and i won't know how to respond. if your character is going to start throwing around "slut" etc., talk to me about it first!!
► DOM/SUB & DISCLIPINE.
given her history of being both physically and verbally abused, it would take significant relationship development for ruby to be comfortable with a dom/sub relationship, and in particular one that employs punishment and discipline – she has a very intense fear of being violently punished for "mistakes" even in her daily life. there are certain acts she'd also struggle with due to trauma, especially impact play and the use of whips.
if we've already got established CR, i don't mind skipping to a point where she's gotten comfortable just for convenience, though i'm also very happy to play out the discomfort and development over time in a longer psl! i think it's really fun to have a character work through issues and trauma via deliberate kink scenes. if you want to lean more into the actual fear for a more abusive and controlling dynamic, that's also doable!!
► NON-CONSENSUAL.
i'm definitely not opposed to non-con as a whole, but prefer to hash it out first, and i'm more likely to play it with someone i know from previous threads. i'm not particularly fond of excessively violent or cruel non-con, especially when the sole purpose of it is as harm, punishment, or humiliation; as with humiliation, it's contempt for the target that puts me off. i'm more interested in the kind of non-con that's fuelled by fixation or desire to a point of disregarding consent, whether it's because of mindlessness (e.g. sex pollen, heat/rut, feral) or a deliberate decision made in full awareness (e.g. yandere shit). purposeful corruption is good too!
► TRAINING.
goes hand-in-hand with things like virginity/purity, inexperience, and size difference – having to work up to penetrative sex using insertions to get the body accustomed or using a lot of prep, teaching oral techniques, even training for specific kinks like dom/sub.
KINKS—
as noted above, i really don't like sudden casual degradation as "normal" dirty talk if it hasn't been discussed prior as part of the dynamic. it completely ruins the vibe for me and i won't know how to respond. if your character is going to start throwing around "slut" etc., talk to me about it first!!
if we've already got established CR, i don't mind skipping to a point where she's gotten comfortable just for convenience, though i'm also very happy to play out the discomfort and development over time in a longer psl! i think it's really fun to have a character work through issues and trauma via deliberate kink scenes. if you want to lean more into the actual fear for a more abusive and controlling dynamic, that's also doable!!